tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4410883160248160138.post5736645884009763370..comments2023-06-26T06:03:54.121-04:00Comments on Craziness and More!: My Single Problem with Wedding PlanningDea-chanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00140404243041621186noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4410883160248160138.post-53365712168036345712012-01-31T01:26:18.325-05:002012-01-31T01:26:18.325-05:00Oh wow, I stay away for a few day, and look at all...Oh wow, I stay away for a few day, and look at all the posts!<br /><br />Re. Francesca's advice, all one hears in my culture before, during and after a wedding is "Adjust, please adjust". "Try a little compromise". "Give a little, plenty of time to get some your way". It's a very compromising culture. And guess which gender hears it the most? ;-) Then again, in my culture, brides do none of the wedding planning. She's the star of the show, right? So it follows that she'll just swan in and grace the occasion, and suffer reciting vows in front of an enormous fire. All the legwork will be done by the two families -- primarily hers. AND the wedding lasts three days. So count your blessings.<br /><br />Having said that, I'm firmly on T's side. That is, I believe it's FAR better to have someone who takes an interest and debates decisions than to have the insincere "It's great honey, do what you like" types. <br /><br />Oh, and, love the artwork. Love it. You're very lucky to have such talented inkers in the family. Our flat has been repainted recently, and I'm going to put some of my photographs up on the wall as soon as we get a free Sunday or two. I'll let you in on the pics when it's done. Remember to swoon ;-)Rimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04344200811838569151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4410883160248160138.post-21034589976842002732012-01-26T15:05:43.310-05:002012-01-26T15:05:43.310-05:00Which will of course be good for our marriage... b...Which will of course be good for our marriage... but I want it MY way! :-DDea-chanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00140404243041621186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4410883160248160138.post-88057856575191734412012-01-26T14:21:32.425-05:002012-01-26T14:21:32.425-05:00you must perfect the art of compromising:)you must perfect the art of compromising:)Francescahttp://www.fuoriborgo.comnoreply@blogger.com